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How To Open Your Mind to New Possibilities

“You’ve heard it countless times: Keep an open mind! It sounds simple, right? But ask yourself, are you genuinely open to new ideas, or do you find yourself jumping to conclusions, locking into one ‘right answer,’ and dismissing anything that challenges your existing beliefs? If so, it might be time for a mental reset! Learn to Stop having a closed mind. Open your mind to new possibilities because the rewards are endless when you do.

A closed mind is like living in a locked room with the blinds drawn. It’s easy to shut out anything unfamiliar or uncomfortable and cling to the familiar. The signs of a closed mind are straightforward. People, or perhaps you, make snap judgments or rush to conclusions before fully understanding a concept. They don’t listen to listen. They listen to object and correct. They miss out on having higher quality relationships and communicating well.

They live from fixed options believing there is only one correct solution or perspective to any situation, often your own. They take a defensive stance by feeling that others are “wrong” if they disagree with you and refusing to consider their point of view. It’s why they don’t listen. They dismiss or reject new or different ideas without serious thought simply because they don’t fit their worldview. If you do, notice when you do.

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This is a natural human tendency, but one that we can and should work to overcome. As I often say, ‘Contempt for a new idea before examination is a sign of a closed mind.’ My more popular quote is ‘Exploration is the doorway to adventure. Curiosity is the key.’ A favorite of mine is attributed to Oliver Wendall Holmes ‘A mind stretched to a new idea, can never go back to its original dimension.’ We benefit greatly by staying open.

Living with a closed mind keeps you boxed into the same experiences, perspectives, and limitations, robbing you of the opportunity for growth. When you shut down any idea or point of view that doesn’t align with yours, you miss out on discovering innovative solutions, connecting with others on a deeper level, and, most importantly, learning and expanding. It’s like putting a cap on your own potential. A closed mind costs you plenty.

Ready to make a change? Let’s look at ways to open to new ideas and experiences. Be willing to embrace exploration. Remember, ‘Exploration is the doorway to adventure.’ Start exploring ideas you’re not initially drawn to. That doesn’t mean you have to adopt every new concept you encounter but let yourself investigate it without judgment. Read up on it, research it, or even just think about it with an open mind.

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Like a traveler setting out to explore new lands, decide to approach each idea with curiosity rather than resistance. While it can be beneficial to be surrounded by likeminded people, you don’t want all likeminded people. If they all think like you, you are limited. If you think the way they do, that might be good but that depends. What you do want is people who challenge you so you notice blind spots and things you wouldn’t.

If you always do what you always did, nothing changes. Things remain the same and if you don’t like them, that’s being stuck. To move forward you must move. Having people with different points of view, different beliefs and experiences to have in your life ONLY makes your life richer. Especially, if you can listen with an open mind and not prevent them from expressing their perspectives. LISTEN TO LEARN not to discuss or refute. Get it?

Pause before you judge. When that knee-jerk reaction to dismiss something as ‘wrong’ or ‘stupid’ pops up, catch yourself. Pause. Take a breath and let that initial reaction subside. Let it go and be different. Tell yourself, ‘I’m going to see this through before forming an opinion.’ This single pause can make all the difference. It’s a choice. Dog crap or diamonds and diverse experiences and ideas are diamonds. If you want your life to change…

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You must change things in your life. Stay curious. It’s the key to adventure. Ask yourself questions about your own judgments. ‘Where did I get this opinion? Why do I believe it so strongly? Look around and consider others’ views. Who else thinks this way, and why? When you develop the habit of asking questions, you open up pathways to understanding that weren’t there before. You can ask the other person too, just to learn from them.

Curiosity is the antidote to closed-mindedness. Close-mindedness has another name. Dickheadedness. Instead of challenging others to win your point, ask questions to learn why they hold their beliefs, values, opinions and judgements. What led them to those conclusions. By knowing how they chose to think you understand them better and can communicate in more positive ways. You can even predict how they” think and act in the future.

When we challenge our own beliefs, we free ourselves to see from new angles. Start questioning your assumptions regularly. Recognize when you’re holding onto an idea out of habit. It may be great to continue to do so. It may be that it’s useful sometimes but not others. Open up. Develop flexibility in your thinking and you’ll become far more creative and a better problem solver. Try seeing the world from the opposite perspective.

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You may not ultimately change your view, but you will stretch your mind to new possibilities. Good attorneys and debaters can speak on the other side. They can argue for the opposite position in addition to their own. When you can embrace multiple perspectives you have more choices, possibilities and opportunities. You can see what you otherwise couldn’t. You reduce your blind spots and open your ability to see new things.

Becoming aware of when you’re shutting down or closing off is the first step toward real change. Notice when you feel frustration or anger arising. Notice when you are feeling constricted, or you just must really make this person understand their folly or your brilliance. NOTICE and stop. THEN celebrate those moments of self-awareness! When you recognize a closed-minded response, see it as an opportunity to grow rather than a flaw.

Celebrate noticing to encourage future noticing. Stop criticizing yourself and others if you make a mistake and become grateful you noticed. Making mistakes is fine, it helps you move forward to learn to recognize, correct, adjust and continue. Making the same mistake is what people call stupid or futile. It means you’re not paying attention or caring enough. So, whenever you realize you goofed, be thankful you don’t have to goof again.

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Get it? I encourage people instead of living a lack-luster, half assed life, of low energy, lack of investment and no worthy returns to stop being dickheaded or stubborn and to step into their full potential. People miss out because they don’t make changes. Instead, they defend their position and give reasons why they can’t. They look for loopholes to not do things in their own best interests instead of all they reasons why they should.

If you know you should and you don’t, what does that tell you? If you could do it but don’t know what is going on? How about putting an end to those cycles and moving forward in productive and meaningful ways that delight and excite you about your life and relationships? Notice when you could be moving forward but aren’t. Celebrate that awareness and then choose to move forward. Knowing but not doing, is not really knowing.

Act in your own best interests.

So, I ask you, isn’t it time to break free from the limitations of a closed mind? In my programs, you’ll learn how to cultivate curiosity, challenge your perspectives, and create a mindset that’s not only open but also endlessly expansive. Imagine a life where every new idea feels like a chance to grow, where you’re not held back by rigid beliefs but are free to create, connect, and live with purpose. Join my program today to transform your thinking.

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You’ll expand your horizons and unlock the power of an open mind. Together, we’ll explore practices and principles to help you recognize and overcome closed-mindedness, build habits that open your mind to success, and create a more joyful, fulfilling life. This is your chance. Don’t let it pass by! Open your mind, embrace new possibilities, and step into the life you’re capable of creating. Make today the day you begin your transformation. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How to Stop Waiting to Speak and Start Listening to Learn

“Listening is an art, one of the most powerful tools you can develop for genuine understanding and growth. The act of listening, without immediately needing to reply, argue, or share your perspective, is transformational. When you learn to truly listen, you open up a space to appreciate, absorb, and explore ideas that may have otherwise slipped by unnoticed. This part of your journey is all about creating that space for yourself and others.

It’s about allowing a greater flow of understanding and genuine connection to emerge. Most of us fall into the habit of “listening to reply,” where our main focus is waiting for our turn to speak. True listening is listening without an agenda. It’s about giving the speaker the spotlight and absorbing their words with respect and curiosity. Listen first and foremost to understand, not to speak. Know first where they are coming from.

Ask yourself as you listen, “What can I learn here?” or “What are they really trying to convey? “This practice keeps you open and engaged, without feeling the need to challenge, judge, or counter. Instead of simply nodding along while crafting your response, aim to listen purely to understand. Seek to know more by asking open-ended questions, not to argue or counterpoint, but to dig deeper. Magic can happen when you do. Try these:

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“Can you explain what you mean by that?” “What does that mean to you?” “Could you tell me more?” By doing this, you encourage openness and build rapport, showing you value the other person’s experience and perspective. Reflect their words back to them in your own to ensure you’ve understood, then let them clarify if needed. I’ll share more next time. Meanwhile, begin putting this into action today. Great things can happen.

Sometimes, the most impactful thing you can do after someone finishes sharing is simply to pause, letting their words hang and showing they’ve been heard. So, take this step today. Embrace this journey, and watch your world open up! Imagine developing the skills not just to hear, but to understand deeply, and to grow from every conversation. As you do you’ll notice relationships growing stronger. You’ll connect deeper and in rewarding ways.

‘Be the change you want to see in the world.’ GO FIRST. Give to get! If you’re ready to transform how you interact with the world around you, I invite you to join one of my programs today and learn how to apply these principles in every area of your life. Together, we’ll move beyond old habits, unlocking your potential to connect, create, and flourish with a fresh, open-minded approach to listening. Everything changes when you do. Celebrate Everything!” Rex Sikes

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Change Happens: Embrace It and Watch Your Life Transform

“Change is inevitable. You’ve heard it before. Let it sink in. Understand this. You are constantly changing. Every day brings new opportunities, new challenges, and new choices that shape who you are becoming. The question is: will you direct these changes toward growth and joy, or resist them and stay rooted in old, limiting patterns? When you approach change with an open mind, willing to explore and grow, something amazing happens.

You begin to feel lighter. You’re more energized. You feel more alive because you are. You express it. Positive energy flows more easily through you. Why? Because your thoughts, beliefs, and habits start aligning with who you truly want to be AND you stop resisting. You flow. As you allow, generate and embrace positive thoughts you neurologically open and you see the world open up as a result. As your thoughts transform, so do you.

AND as your thoughts transform, so does your experience of life. Embrace positive beliefs, and you become filled with energy and openness. You become more tolerant, more accepting, and fun-loving. You’re no longer wasting energy resisting or defending; instead, you’re free. You can focus on what truly matters to you. And because you do everything changes. This mindset shift makes you a magnet for healthier relationships and deep connections.

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You discover a genuine sense of inner peace. Your relationships with family, friends, and colleagues can and do become more joyful, simply because you’re no longer bogged down by judgment or frustration. When you let go of the need to be right and are able to approach others with curiosity and acceptance, the bonds between you strengthen. You become a person others want to be around.

It’s not because you agree on everything, but because you create a safe, positive space for everyone to be themselves. Letting go frees up your energy. Maintaining rigid beliefs, judgments and labels bogs you down. It’s a weight on your shoulders you don’t need. It is a constant strain on your mind and body, tension that drains your energy bit by bit. But when you release judgements and negative thoughts, it’s like a breath of fresh air.

You reclaim the energy once spent defending your ideas. Now that energy is available for things that bring you joy and growth. By letting go of the “us vs. them” mentality, you open to new friendships, fresh insights, and more meaningful connections. You no longer need to prove yourself or impose your way of thinking on others. Instead, you can appreciate the diversity of viewpoints.

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You can discover that life is richer when it includes a variety of ideas and experiences. I’ll share more next time. Meanwhile, it’s important to learn how to understand and appreciate others better. Discover how you win when they win too. Learn how to better create rapport through acceptance and understanding and how to communicate your ideas in more palatable ways. You can take the first step now by joining one of my transformative programs. You’ll learn powerful strategies to cultivate a flexible, growth-oriented mindset, and with each day, you’ll feel yourself transforming in ways you never thought possible. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Let’s Start Doing This! All For One And One For All

“Let’s put this meme’s message into practice. Let’s make our world a better place. Together we can stop the insanity. We can bring some love, kindness, understanding, peace and compassion to our world. Let’s stop excluding, fearing and hating others and seek to understand, accept and include others. Let’s make them feel welcome, valued, loved and appreciated. How about joining together to uplift and edify each other.

The greatest asset and resources we have are our relationships. We are ONE species on a rock hurtling around the sun. We won’t be here together forever. Let’s enjoy each other and the ride while we can. How about we begin to understand life is more wonderful than our petty differences and that we are more similar than different. We’re all people after all. Let’s look for ways to get along. Stop the division and unite ourselves.

Let’s make the world so wonderful we all celebrate. When the tide rises it floats the boat and everyone in it! Let’s make it a point of being kinder, gentler, more loving and delightful. Help put a smile on someone’s face today. Help someone see through a problem to find a solution. Give someone a compliment or a hug. Affirm them. Tell someone you love them. Make a new friend. Play with a child or a pet. Spread some joy around. Life is far too short for madness but long enough for love, light, laughter, joy and celebration. Celebrate each other. Celebrate everything! Rex Sikes

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“His deep and nuanced understanding of how the mind processes information and how real transformation is accomplished is beyond words. I was privileged to invest 10 hours a day for three weeks with him over 25 years ago. That information has infused the next few decades of decision-making and career success. He is a total gem in the world of teachers and trainers. My internal dialogue, my ability to manage my states, and my ability to train and coach students were forever improved. – Bart Baggett, Speaker, Author, Forensic Document Examiner, L.A. CA

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Why Ordinary Salespeople Are Ordinary. Are You?

“‘Riches, when they come in huge quantities, are never the result of HARD work! Riches come, if they come at all, in response to definite demands, based upon the application of definite principles, and not by chance or luck. Generally speaking, an idea is an impulse of thought that impels action, by an appeal to the imagination. All master salesmen know that ideas can be sold where merchandise cannot. Ordinary salesmen do not know this-that is why they are “ordinary”. Napoleon Hill

So many people read, study, join groups and miss the points Hill was making. It isn’t about action although it is to some extent. It isn’t about hard work people tell you is necessary to succeed. It is about other things necessary and far more important BUT you must discover them for yourself. They can’t be handed to you. Telling you is of little use. That is why Hill did what he did and how he did iit. That is why I’ve been studying Hill and others for decades.

I will share with you what I can, but I do not want to deprive you of the incredible gifts arriving for you when you discover the secret. I will support you. I will point the way but I won’t give it away. In the great mystery there is great clarity! There is a structure and form to it all. Most people concentrate on content but not much else. If you don’t understand the principles and themes behind the work you miss the work. You are distracted by words and miss meaning. I’m here to help. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes – – – PS read below!

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ATTITUDE IS THE NUMBER ONE PREDICTOR OF SUCCESS IN ALL AREAS OF YOUR LIFE! IF YOU DO NOTHIN, NOTHING CHANGES. TAKE THIS TINY POWERFUL STEP IN THE RIGHTY DIRECTION!

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You Must First Know How It Works To Succeed And Then…

“An important description of how IT works that you must know to succeed. ‘Now we know that this Infinite Good is not more available to one than it is to all. We know that the only limit to it is in our capacity to receive. If you had a problem in mathematics to work out, you would hardly gather together the necessary figures and leave them to arrange themselves in their proper sequence.

You would know that while the method for solving every problem has been figured out, you have got to work it. The principles are there, but you have got to apply them. The first essential is to understand the principle—to learn how it works—how to use it. The second—and even more important part—is to APPLY that understanding to the problem in hand.

In the same way, the Principle of Infinite Energy, Infinite Supply, is ever available. But that Energy, that Supply, is static. You’ve got to make it dynamic. You’ve got to understand the law. You’ve got to apply your understanding in order to solve your problems of poverty, discord, and disease.’ Robert Collier. Do you understand? Knowing is one thing. Apply is the other. ‘You’ve got to work it.’

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Everything is here for us to use. Some seek to learn it. Others seek to apply it. If all you do is know something but do nothing to further what you know, you miss and remain like the 98% who don’t know and therefore don’t do. It isn’t about taking action. While that is a part of it, it’s really about taking right action. It’s working with the laws, not against them. Most never figure this out.

‘It is not always the man who struggles hardest who gets on in the world. It is the direction as well as the energy of struggle that counts in making progress. To get ahead—you must swim with the tide. Men prosper and succeed who work in accord with natural forces. A given amount of effort with these forces carries a man faster and farther than much more effort used against the current.

Those who work blindly, regardless of these forces, make life difficult for themselves and rarely prosper. It has been estimated by wise observers that on the average something like 90 per cent of the factors producing success or failure lie outside a man’s conscious efforts—separate from his daily round of details.

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To the extent that he cooperates with the wisdom and power of Universal Mind he is successful, well and happy. To the extent that he fails to cooperate, he is unsuccessful, sick and miserable… In the same way, the Principle of Infinite Energy, Infinite Supply, is ever available. But that Energy, that Supply, is static. You’ve got to make it dynamic. You’ve got to understand the law.’ Robert Collier

Some ask me why I quote others since I say much the same thing. Sometimes, people need another voice. Some people have favorites. Sometimes a different person saying the same thing but differently makes more sense. Sometimes, I enjoy the beauty of the description and want to share it. There is so much good and so few get it together to live the life they desire, it’s worth trying it all.

It isn’t about working harder. It is about working smarter. Work with the laws. Understand them. Apply them. Go with the flow. Move in the direction that is working not against it. Many of today’s ‘gurus’ fight the current. They tell you to struggle and work hard. Mostly you work hard in vain as a result, because you oppose the very energies you seek. There’s a direction to move in. Find it!

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It’s not the one most are familiar with. It IS from within to without. Change the outer by changing the inner. Stop trying to change the inner by changing the outer. ‘The first essential is to understand the principle—to learn how it works—how to use it. The second—and even more important part—is to APPLY that understanding to the problem in hand.’ Robert Collier. Get this and you get very much.

What you do and have doesn’t make you who you are. Who you are determines what you do and what you can have. Understand the law and apply it. Surrender to the law. Use it with intention by surrendering to the law. Do what works, not what you think will work. Follow the law, not the so called thought leaders. Apply the law the way the law is meant to be applied and you’ll succeed.

Manage your thoughts, feelings, words and actions and you will take the right actions to succeed. Don’t waste time working harder than necessary. Working smarter will get you there quicker and more efficiently. Pay attention to what Collier says. Not only was he a thought leader but wrote much of the book when it comes to successful sales and marketing. The message is worth understanding and applying to get ahead easier and more effortlessly. Use the right effort and apply it where it is meant to be applied. It’s from within to without. Get it? More next blog. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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“Something you might enjoy knowing. In, ‘The Supernatural’ authored by Lyman Abbott, in an address delivered before the Alumni of Bangor Theological Seminary, he writes ‘We are coming to think of God as dwelling in man rather than as operating on men from without.’ Further he quotes Herbert Spencer, originator of the phrase ‘survival of the fittest’ who made the following statement. Understand these.

‘Amid all the mysteries by which we are surrounded, nothing is more certain than that we are ever in the presence of an Infinite and an Eternal Energy from which all things proceed.’ New Thought proponents began to realize that consciousness is one. All is divine. The creator and creation are not separate. The parts or of the whole. The whole is in the parts. There is no division, there is only unity. Now, get this.

You can only understand what you’re capable of understanding. You evolve in awareness. You become aware and able to think and do things that moments ago and years ago were not possible in your mind. Once it becomes possible within it becomes possible without. Revelation is progressive. You grow in awareness. The divine reveals divine nature to you as you develop the capacity to accept it. Get it.

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It’s why we didn’t have rocket ships a hundred years ago. Everything is eventually revealed. You see only in part. You think as a child. Understanding comes to you in process. You progress. Remember, Unconscious Incompetence ‘I don’t know it.‘ Conscious Incompetence, ‘I know I don’t know it.’ Conscious Competence ‘I’m Learning It.’ Unconscious Competence ‘It’s now habit.’ l Corinthians 13:9-12 states…

‘For we know in part, and we prophesy in part, but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. For now, we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.’

You can’t handle what you don’t know. You can’t handle what you aren’t ready to handle. Life is preparation. Life is revelation. Life is acquiring experience and evolution. Life is change. Energy IS. Everything vibrates, moves and transforms. You are moving through space even though you can’t tell. You are changing even though you may think you are stuck. ‘This too will pass.’ Transform yourself.

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Charles Haanel wrote ‘The greatest and most marvelous power which this “I” has been given is the power to think, but few people know how to think constructively, or correctly, consequently they achieve only indifferent results. Most people allow their thoughts to dwell on selfish purposes, the inevitable result of an infantile mind.’ Who is this ‘I’? It’s your authentic self. It’s who you were before conditioning.

‘When a mind becomes mature, it understands that the germ of defeat is in every selfish thought. The trained mind knows that every transaction must benefit every person who is in any way connected with the transaction, and any attempt to profit by the weakness, ignorance or necessity of another will inevitably operate to his disadvantage. This is because the individual is a part of the Universal…’

‘A part cannot antagonize any other part, but, on the contrary, the welfare of each part depends upon a recognition of the interest of the whole. Those who recognize this principle have a great advantage in the affairs of life. They do not wear themselves out. They can eliminate vagrant thoughts with facility. They can readily concentrate to the highest possible degree on any subject.’

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‘They do not waste time or money upon objects which can be of no possible benefit to them. 9. If you cannot do these things, it is because you have thus far not made the necessary effort. Now is the time to make the effort. The result will be exactly in proportion to the effort expended.’

It is up to you to expend the effort to make the right decision and to commit to the process until you master it. At first, you know nothing of it. You don’t know it exists or is possible. You don’t know what you don’t know. BUT for whatever reason, you get a glimpse on your journey. You come to realize there is something more and you begin to desire it. If you continue, you engage in the process. You practice.

You talk and walk your way through it, adjusting and benefiting from feedback. You learn the correct principles and practices and commit to rehearsing them until you wire them in. You repeat the practice correctly, frequently, consistently for long enough until it becomes a reliable, automatic, useful habit. Once developed Unconscious Competence serves you without having to think about it, though you can.

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You must understand this principle. From impossible to possible is how things work. From it’s possible, you could do it. Maybe not but you could. From could you begin to imagine ‘I can.’ From ‘I can’ you move to ‘I will’ from ‘I will’ to ‘I’m doing it.‘ From I am doing it you move to, ‘Done! I did it.’ The more you attempt to do, the more you learn you can do more. You become capable of doing new things better.

The better you get, the easier it gets. The easier it gets, the better you get. What first seems impossible gets easier with consistent, persistent, correct rehearsal or practice. Whether it’s managing your thoughts, feelings, speech and behaviors you get better the more you do it. Practice makes it permanent. Correct practice matters. Wire in the correct positive practice and it becomes a reliable powerful habit!

Your life transforms because you become the kind of person for whom this new talent and skill is easy to use to create a wonderful experience. From within to without you transform yourself and your circumstances. It is a process. You are never truly ‘done’ you keep getting better and better. Mastery is a life-long process whereby you learn more and can do more.

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Wherever you are in the process, celebrate you are in the process. Others complain. If you learn to celebrate and appreciate the journey more can be revealed! What you resist, persists. Recognize the opportunity and possibility for you and revel in it. Savor it. Delight in it. Be glad and grateful for wherever you are. Continue to rehearse but do it with love, enthusiasm and enjoyment. More to come. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Why Perception Should Matter To You But Probably Doesn’t

“We are meaning makers and time binders. Each of us brings a world of experience to our understanding. We even think we understand things for which we have no experience of. We identify with or associate memories and beliefs and opinions for the experience and draw conclusions which may or may not be valid. It is part of consciousness to be wrong while thinking we’re correct.

We also can think we’re wrong when we could be correct. Correct is relative since we never see the picture in entirety. We see portions of it and think it’s the whole. We make assumptions based on very little information and wildly jump to conclusions about everything. We think we are right during this. We almost always think we are right. That’s part of being human and we dislike being wrong.

It makes us uncomfortable. We defend the fictions we build, the beliefs and opinions. We guard them. Argue them. When I say we jump to conclusions people will be for the sentence is completed. When feedback is offered, some remain open. Others defend what they did. Some miss the point completely because they are busy trying to fit the feedback into what they think they know and did.

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Reality is not our description of it, but we only have our description of it. If I say Mona Lisa most people may know what I refer to. Many will conceive it. Each will do it how they have experienced it. If I show a picture of it each will see what they see. We think we are all thinking and seeing the same thing, but we aren’t. We’re seeing our version of it. Yours and mine overlap, yes but it’s our version.

We can share meaning and understandings. We think we mean the same things. To some extent we do. Still what goes on in one’s head is different from what goes on in another’s. It must be. While we are born into the same world we are shaped differently even in the same family, neighborhood and culture. This is great news. It’s also the basis for our pain and miscommunication.

If I give 10 people instructions, they all hear it and process it differently. Some get close to carrying it out as instructed. All will carry it out as instructed. Some will say, ‘oh, I thought you meant…’ Others will defend what they did because, ‘what you said was…’ We hear and process differently the same stimuli. Again, this is both wonderful and can be the basis of suffering. It’s all good in so many ways.

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The choice we have is not obvious to most. We can hope to understand the process best as we can and attempt to gain awareness of it and its affects on our lives. We might begin to realize we’re always acting on limited information so we are always doing the best we can with what we know. We do things and sometimes don’t get the results we expect but if we’re open, we can adjust and continue.

We can make better attempts to stay open and listen instead of assuming we know what the other person is saying. We can let the information come to us instead of stopping it with our reasoning. All of this is delicate and takes awareness and practice staying open. We quickly close. If someone defends what they said or did based on a statement from another, they likely thought it wasn’t liked or valued.

Get that! That may not even be the reason for the statement. We learned this in childhood. We did something, and someone said it was wrong or marked it wrong. So we do things now and if someone says anything about it other than praise, the tendency is to defend it. They’ll recount history. They’ll say, ‘well, you said.’ The miss the point because they think what they didn’t wasn’t liked. Notice this.

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We interpret. We put our meaning on or over everything. Most of us don’t realize this. We just do it because it’s what we do. If we agree we like hamburgers, we can agree on many things and never truly know what each other experiences. We think they mean and experience the same as we do. They don’t. Consciousness is beautiful. We’re different cells of one thing operating differently.

We’re different cells of one thing operating similarly. We think we are the same or different when neither is completely true. It’s what we think it is whether it really is or not. That’s what subjective experience means. It means it is your experience not everyone’s. Although we think IF it is ours it IS everyone’s too. We think we are the same EXCEPT for those we claim are different.

When we form groups, we overlap what we THINK we share. AND we do share some things, but it is more nuanced that we can ever understand. The point to all this is you can never know, have or own the complete truth on any topic although you can think you can. You don’t but that doesn’t stop you from thinking you do or arguing with someone about it. If you think you are right, you will think it.

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Still, we are fooled by illusions all the time. Optical illusions help point this out. We think it’s one thing or one way when it isn’t. That holds some keys to our understanding in how we approach others and the world. It’s true about how we understand ourselves. We think we know ourselves based on the information we use to define ourselves and that’s picked from limited examples we claim are true.

The truth is that it is far more multifaceted than we can ever imagine. It is also true it is far simpler than we typically make it. We never have complete truth but a facet of it. What we think is true may be in some ways but not all ways. To make sense of the world we follow maps. Road maps and internal road maps. We map reality and think the map is the reality. It isn’t. A map is ALWAYS incomplete

No more so than a road map is the reality. It’s a description that is representative of the reality but it is only a description. If you realize this, you are closer to liberation. If you understand everyone has their own inner road map you are ahead of the game. There will be some areas of overlap and some areas that don’t. Overlap means you might agree on aspects of the overlap. Other areas you won’t.

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A representation is never the original. A map always leaves things out. It must. It’s a map. Yet, most never realize we’re internal mapmakers and assign meaning. Consciousness is beautiful. We suffer because we think we know ‘truth.’ Maps aren’t meant to be defended, but celebrated and enjoyed. We are the same and still we’re not at all alike. We’re all different yet the same. We use maps!

What I say you understand, however you understand it, completely independent of what I meant or intended. Still, you think you know what I mean, even when you don’t. Get this and freedom is close. There will be those who agree with me on this and there will be those who don’t because of the very conditions I just described, and they’ll never notice what they are doing UNTIL possibly they do.

That’s the nature of it. That IS the illusion. We think. We think we know what is meant AND we do but only from our internal road map. Remember subjectivity. Objectivity doesn’t truly exist. We attempt to be objective from our subjective and very personal road map. We aren’t, but it’s okay to attempt it if you don’t think you hold the objective truth while others are ignorant. Sad, but his happens a lot.

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Consciousness and our understanding of it is delicate, fragile like a flower. It unfolds. It opens. If we can be open, we can discover more. If we close down and shut down, we miss. Life is more than we can ever say about it. So are you and me. We have limited descriptions about vast processes but think our descriptions are accurate. They aren’t complete, that’s for certain, but we think they are.

We miss if we defend our description. Be open. It’s one of the most difficult things we encounter. NOTICE that statement is not true either. It may be incredibly easy. What you think it is determines much about it. Thinking is wonderful and limited and yet, vast and incomplete. All of life is reflected in a blade of grass but we can’t describe it all. What to do? Suffer or celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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This May Be Difficult To Understand At First, But You Must!

“This suggestion may seem difficult but trust me it gets easier. What you hope to do with ease you must first do with diligence. Correct, consistent, spaced repetition done long enough gives rise to wonderful talents and abilities if you take the time, energy and deliberate intention to do so. Otherwise, the same process gives rise to conditioning and habits you already have and many that are unwanted.

Learn to create good habits by intention. Stop preventing yourself from moving forward. How? Here it comes. Stop resisting your resistance to change. It gets easier. It really does and much sooner if you don’t fight and whine and complain, make excuses or blame self, others or the universe. That only puts more energy into resistance. That ONLY delays things. Don’t feed the fire you’re attempting to put out.

Turn your attention to the new thoughts, feelings and behaviors you want instead. Focus on what you DO want to become, do and have, AS IF you already are it, doing it and having it. Express gratitude. Stop focusing and thereby giving energy and fuel what you don’t want or the blow back you have been getting. This is where most people get off course. Stop fanning the flames of resistance!

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They get all pie in the sky airy fairy instead of understanding that they are on a new path and there may be difficulty. Accept that it’s likely to occur and get over it. Stop talking about it being hard, or people preventing you, or opposition from the universe and learn to enjoy the ride. ALL the opposition and difficulty and people you don’t like are gifts to accelerate your wellbeing IF you understand this.

Then you’re prepared for it. Then regardless of what comes your way, or however difficult it may temporarily seem to be, you’ll keep at it, not succumb to it or quit. Keep doing the new positive things! Return your focus and energy to the positive, the good, the pleasant, the gratitude. Learn to live life meditatively. That’s what one does in meditation. Gently return the focus to the mantra, the breath…

The key to change is to not upset the apple cart even when the apple cart gets upset. Accept it. Accept that with changing comes resistance and go on. Accept everything and stay on your path. Don’t cave into your old habits or to peer pressure. You are learning something new and there is a process to it. Go with the process. FLOW. There’re times you go uphill, other times downhill, sometimes on flatland.

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Stay focused on your intention. Stay focused on gratitude. You go through hard times with hard people to learn how not to let hard times and hard people knock you off course. It is never about the times or the people. It IS about your transformation. Plenty will come along to distract you, to dissuade and discourage you, but don’t let anything knock you off. Attitude really is everything!

Recognize obstacles and problems as opportunities for growth. Everything can work together to move you forward when you stay focused. Persist but don’t resist! Find and express your gratitude. Learn to love your life no matter what is occurring. Learn to affirm the positive when times are easy and excruciating. Learn to find joy in all of it. This IS how you learn to celebrate everything so begin by celebrating everything. Get it? Now, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Tips And Practices For Relating And Communicating Better

“Friends stay in touch. They don’t ghost each other. Reliability is important. Keeping one’s word is of paramount importance. Trust is earned. Your reputation precedes you. Always! That’s because your actions speak louder than your words. Be a person of integrity and responsibility. When you seek to serve others first and you go the extra mile people can tell and respond. That makes a reputation.

Seek to serve. Seek to uplift. Seek to support and to edify. WHO you are matters the most because from who you are, you do what you do. Either you are a caring person of integrity and your actions follow, or you are not. Do you seek to serve or do you seek to take? You can’t fake sincerity. Others, for the most part, can tell. Their head may deceive them, but their heart and gut will not. They will feel it on OR off.

Con artists can gain trust. They are called confidence artists. They have the ability to gain your confidence and they’re in it to take you. Genuine relationships are caring relationships. They are transparent and helpful. They’re built on mutual appreciation and harmony. Each party seeks to help the other party feel secure and cared for. They seek to take care of each other.

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Good friends don’t let each other suffer. They seek to help and uplift. They give areas close as is necessary and they allow space for growth. They give each other room to grow while growing together. They are interdependent. People can see when one is authentic. They feel it. They also can feel it when something is off. Their head can deceive them and sometimes they may be misled. But they know.

Inside we know when something isn’t right. We need to learn how to pay attention to that inner guidance. We need to learn that trust is earned. You must be trustworthy. YOUR WORD IS YOUR BOND. If you don’t keep your word, your promises, your commitments, your appointments you demonstrate you don’t care and are not a person worth knowing. You demonstrate lack of integrity and caring.

Integrity, responsibility, honesty, and congruency are important. If people can’t feel they can trust you it probably means somehow you are not trustworthy. Don’t blame them. Transform yourself into a person people can trust. The word relationship is a label people put on the act of relating to each other. We don’t relationship or communication with each other. We relate. We communicate, listen and support.

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By correct actions, with positive regard and through positive relating and communicating we engage in trust building activities. Trust IS earned. Once trust is broken it is difficult, it may be impossible to get it back. So don’t lose it. Don’t violate another person’s trust. You have to walk your talk, not just talk the talk. I’d say celebrate everything instead of whining, complaining, blaming and making excuses.

YOU attract others because of WHO you are. If you are attracting vampires it’s because you are one.IF you want to stop attracting vampires don’t blame them. Transform yourself. You need to change. Don’t try to change them or blame them. Change yourself to attract a better caliber of people. People are attracted to others like moths to a flame. Are you a person who attracts awesome others?

Or do you attract those kinds of people you’d rather not? What you put out comes back to you in a variety of ways. Change yourself to attract the best by being the best. Who you attract is up to you and who you are! It’s about you, not about them. Yes, gather people who trust you because YOU are trustworthy. Gather people you trust, but not ‘yes’ people. You want honest people who speak the truth.

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You want them to be honest, direct, compassionate and forthcoming with you. You want people whose goals align with yours and yours with them so you can work together in harmony towards a greater vision or outcome. Seek to be open. Seek the higher, less traveled road. Be open. Don’t be closed. Seek honest people and be honest. Both should be so honest no one has to ever wonder. Create trust.

If others resent you, adjust yourself. Make the necessary changes to be more trustworthy and not a person to resent. Be above reproach. DOn’t leave your friends hanging. Dp your due diligence to others. Make them feel valued and appreciated. Talk is cheap. Actions are everything. If they know their interests are genuinely in your heart they can enjoy you more and open up more AND you can too.

If they doubt your motives and intentions because that’s the read they have on you, in order to repair it you must change to demonstrate integrity and that their interests truly matter. They need to know you care. You know the saying, if it is to be, it is up to me. It’s up to us to be the person of can transform and adjust and be resilient and flexible and make repairs when necessary. Don’t grow resentment.

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Treat others like gold and they are more apt to value and support you. Go the extra mile. If you mistreat another person you should feel shame. Shame is the signal you have to repair something. You need to seek forgiveness and correct the situation. It is your responsibility. To wallow in shame isn’t healthy but to use it to make corrections and transformation is a good thing. It is always upon us to change.

If you understand another person is uncomfortable, what can you do to make them more comfortable in your presence or with you. Don’t insist they change. YOU change. If a person is uncomfortable or suffering and you don nothing, you don’t exemplify likability, love, compassion, understanding or friendship. Labels and judgements don’t help. Seek to heal, not to criticize. Seek to unite not to divide.

Learn to give and to receive graciously. Birds need both wings to fly. The person of integrity does what is necessary to repair the relationship. They adjust what they are doing without blaming the others. They change how they are paying attention and become more attentive, more respectful, they listen more openly, without judgement to understand and not to speak. They seek to build rapport and trust.

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They demonstrate the relationship IS important to them. The golden rule means you do others what you want done to you. The platinum rule means you do it the way the other person would like it done. You observe, listen, understand and do it their way. You must put these practices into action. Knowing them isn’t enough. The proper fruit of knowledge is action. To know and not do is to not know.

So, don’t make others wrong. Change yourself. Don’t blame yourself but transform. Go higher. Vibe higher. Become a better person. Evolve yourself. Realize everyone may have conflict but it need not be destructive. Learn to argue while respecting each other. You can hold differences of opinion and still respect each other. What matters is how important your relationship is to the both of you.

Pay attention to your relationships. Nurture them. Don’t assume the worst of the other. Stop mind reading or inferring their intentions. Be open. Stay open. Seek to verify without succumbing to a negative narrative running in your head. Don’t create bad scenarios and pigeonhole the other person. Learn to fight fairly if you’re going to fight. Learn to let love guide you, not fear, anger or hate.

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Don’t be so busy you neglect the other. Make time for your partner. Care for the people who care for you and trust you. Take care of your relationships. I am busy is not a valid excuse. Don’t forsake important people for business and for being busy. Make the time for the people you care about. Check in with them. Don’t ghost them and expect them to understand. Stop making excuses. Be responsible.

Fill up the other person with positive energy and love. Fill their tank. Pour positive fuel into them. Always go first. care enough to go first. It takes two to tango. One always leads another follows. Leading doesn’t mean being correct. It means caring enough. Let them know you care. Pour into them and they can pour into you. If you both seek to do this, you both win. If you both seek to uplift, support and love the other then both of you are building something better. Support is a two-way street. Care enough to care. Celebrate everything alone and together. Get it. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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