“Maybe, all I am thinking and doing is a fantasy, a lie, a delusion. If so, so what? If everything I am thinking is a lie, I prefer it this way. I am not interested in a ‘truth.’ I am interested in what works and is most useful when it comes to mindset, imagination and manifesting.

Truth is useful. If it’s not true I can reframe it. Understand?  Science updates theories. At least good scientists do. Those steeped in profit or politics are loath to update since it means former theories are no longer accepted. It freaks out vested parties and publishers.

I’m willing to update and keep a loose hold on ‘reality’ since research indicates our beliefs and perceptions dictate what is, or how we experience what is, more than an outer objective reality does. In reality, it’s a two-way street. Things happen. We react OR respond.

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What we do and how we do it depends on whether we’re still slaves to our habituated conditioning or whether we’ve been able to re-program some of it so instead of perpetuating old reactions we can respond with new choices. It is a tricky business, I’ll admit. It is!

Some people talk about the law of attraction. They say, ‘Be positive. Think what you want and you’ll attract it. The universe will provide’. That scared me at first, years ago, because I used to think, ‘If I think it and it doesn’t happen I’ll be disappointed.’

Which, thinking about it now, was stupid. If I did nothing I’d be disappointed nothing changed. If I did something and nothing changed I’d be disappointed. Either way, I’d be disappointed. So, really, the only thing I had to lose was the disappointment.

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BUT, that meant doing something different instead of doing everything the same way I had. I used to think, ‘Ok, I’ll think positive, but I don’t want any religious Infinite Intelligence or god talk. I don’t want to go there. I just want good things to happen’. No fluff. No way.

‘So, don’t get metaphysical or magical with me. I don’t want to be surrounded by purple protective bubbles and amulets. I want practical, down-to-earth, scientific, everyday reality thinking that, if I engage in it, is sure to happen so I won’t be disappointed.’

Know what I found? Magic. I found magic, but not the New Age wacky flavor of the moment magic, but real true transformative magic. I found if I wanted something to be, it was/is actually up to me. It’s up to how I think and how I feel and what I do. I DO IT!

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It is up to me to imagine it, or conceive it, and to believe I can make it happen. Then, create a plan, utilize my resources and possibly collaborate with others while wishing myself and everyone only good things, because when I do, I create for myself a better life.

I move through the world more easily and with more fun and enjoyment. Things get better. When I hit snags, I’m resilient and able to adjust and make good come from it. I discover more opportunity and good in all things even in hardship. I transformed my world!

When I’m feeling positive and wishing others well, I am attracting positive feeling people who wish me and others well. I’m resonating with other like-minded people who are seeking positive opportunities to create wonderful things in their lives and the lives of others. Life gets better. If it can for me, it can for you too. If I can do this, so can you. The question is, will you? I hope so. I’m here to help when you want it. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

“If you can change your mind, you can change your life.” William James

Freedom can be yours BUT if you do nothing, nothing changes!

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