“How is your life going? Are you ecstatically pleased and happy? Are you enjoying your life to the utmost OR is your life not so good? What is life anyway? It is your feelings and thoughts about yourself, your relationships, family, significant others, friends, and associates.
It is you career or job, your playtime, your health, your wealth, your relaxation time. It is comprised of your home, transportation, what you can do, when, where and with whom?
How do you define yourself and your life? Are you pleased or displeased? What are your thoughts about these? What are your thoughts about the world and others around you? These are great questions!
A really great question is what are your predominant thoughts? What do you think about most of the time? What do you think about in each of these areas? How do you think and feel as you consider them? Are you mostly positive or negative?
Do you feel mostly joyful or not so good as you entertain these notions? Do you realize that whatever is going on in your present life IS a reflection of your previous and current thinking? Are you aware that your experience is completely up to you?
What are you feeling most of the time? Do you feel wonderful, just okay or less than glorious? It is true you determine what your life is. You decide what your experience will be. Each of us does. You may not believe it but stop and look around. Take stock.
Examine your life without blaming anyone else for your good or bad circumstances. Recognize, perhaps for the very first time, that your life is entirely comprised of the decisions you have or haven’t made. (Not making a decision is actually a decision).
Everything has always been up to you. If life is wonderful fantastic! Either you know precisely how and why and what you are doing or you stumbled onto something that works and, yet, you haven’t a clue. If life is merely okay and you are getting by or if it is worse, then you are ripe to make some changes. If you want things in your life to change, yup, you gotta change some things.
You have to change what you are thinking and feeling and doing. There is no point in blaming yourself OR anyone else that doesn’t make anything better. Just accept the consequences of your thoughts and actions, and realize you made the best choices you knew how to at that time.
Realize too, that was then. This is now. Right now, you have the opportunity to begin making better choices. Become accountable and responsible. The single most powerful thought that changed my life most significantly I first learned when I was eleven years old.
It didn’t sink in and make sense or a difference until decades later. Sometimes, we just aren’t ready or prepared to take advantage of great things. I missed plenty of opportunities because I just could not see them.
This one thought that transformed me and my life more than anything else. It was Earl Nightengale’s ‘You become what you think about’. He referenced it in his recording of ‘The Strangest Secret’. He said it was the strangest secret because it was so simple that most people missed it.
I certainly missed it for quite some time! Since that time I have heard and used variations. ‘You get what you think about’, “You become what you think about most of the time’. ‘What you focus on expands’. ‘Attention goes where energy flows’.
All of these are profound ways of pointing out that who you are, what you feel and what you have and do is UP TO YOU and within your control. The point is ‘YOU become WHAT YOU think about most of the time.’
Once I took this simple but powerful phrase to heart I began to change my life and my being. I kept that thought in the forefront of my brain, ‘you become what you think about’ as I took control of my other thoughts. If I can do any part of this you can as well.
As an actor, a young actor I knew that ‘thought precedes doing’. It is the thought that compels you. What the audience sees are the actions you take based on what you as the character are thinking. The same is true in actual life. Thought precedes action.
Everything begins first with thought. We know this is true because all human-made things first originate in the mind of the human creator prior to being translated into a physical reality. We see it in our minds eye, translate it to paper (plans and blueprints) and share it with others.
We manufacture and market and we sell ideas to others. All the results we get we get because we envision them, good or bad, and we act in some fashion to bring them about. We really are creators!
There is another thought I adhered to which added to the incredible difference self-control was making in my life. That thought is, ‘As long as you say what you have, you will have what you say’.
As long as you assert and declare how things are, as long as you think, act and speak from a particular mindset, that is what you will manifest, attract and have for yourself. This particular thought made me aware of what my life story is.
Is it positive and filled with what I want to have and include or is it negative and about what I don’t have and why? Whatever you say you have is what you will have! We are the creators and authors of our experience.
Are our conversations and thoughts filled mostly with praise, can do thoughts and building up, or limiting can’t do thinking, tearing down and complaining? It actually matters! What we do most of most often is what we get back. These are the seeds we plant!
Both of these simple ideas led to great change in my life and they can in yours too. These are simple, easy to remember and be aware of throughout the day.
What do you think about most and what do you talk about most? Is it what you want or don’t want? If you don’t have, and aren’t getting and becoming, what you want then you need to take charge, gain control and think ‘more better’.
You and I are already thinking effectively all the time. If we will only accept 100% responsibility for everything we are and aren’t, have and don’t have, then we have an excellent starting place to make things happen.
‘If it is to be it is up to me’, is certainly another idea that matters. All of these thoughts say the same thing in different ways. Whatever you want is up to you and it all begins with thought! It matters where your attention is most of the time each day.
So take an inventory and determine whether or not your thinking is serving you or hindering you. Once you find out then decide what to do about it. Only you can make the difference for yourself, no one else can.
Take charge, and begin to live the life you deserve to have, the life you truly desire, and the life you can have. Enjoy each moment because you become what you think about most of the time each day!” Rex Sikes
Take advantage of the tremendous opportunities for transformative moments during this day and enjoy!
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