“You want to make changes to feel better, believe in yourself and stop being so anxious, right? You can end impostor syndrome and performance anxiety in several ways. I share a few with you. If you read and apply what you learn from my book Life On Your Terms or listen to the Attitude Activator™ you’ll discover it is easier than you may have thought it could be. It is what you think it is.
I encourage you to read and re-read my blog because reviewing gives you an opportunity to notice what you may have missed. It’s true people don’t hear until they hear. One can repeat something 1000 times and if the person isn’t ready to listen, hear and apply what is said they won’t know what they don’t know UNTIL they do. Get it? What you don’t know runs the show. I mean, do you get it?
Perhaps on the 1001 time they hear for the first time. Celebrate. It doesn’t matter how much time it takes; it only matters that at some point you become aware. It’s why the Zen master said you must empty your teacup before more can be poured in. You must make room for the new. That means let go of what you think you know. Let go and think differently. Empty your cup so new can be put in.
Change Your Thoughts And Transform Your Life
So, begin by celebrating. Raise your vibes because you can become different by changing what you are thinking and feeling. Celebrate and enjoy! Continue to celebrate and enjoy! Look and find areas in your life you can feel grateful. Gratitude transforms you. Celebrate the limitations as gifts and opportunities to recognize, become aware and to begin to do things differently. Celebrate!
It isn’t important why you were limited. You don’t have to know the reasons or repeat the story. BUT know this. For whatever reason you had what you had in the past or present, or whatever you thought and felt that limited you, that experience is a gift for you to become aware and learn new things. Why? It doesn’t matter. What matters is the lesson you take with it and what you do now!
Be grateful for this adventure. You don’t know where it will take you, but it is the journey. Celebrate all aspects of the journey. Know this: When you want to change your life, you must make changes in your life. You can’t get different results doing the same things over again. You must make changes that get you what you want to have. This is an opportunity for you to KNOW the difference.
You Deserve To Live Life On Your Terms: Create The Life You Want
I have had some incredible events lately. Some worked out wonderfully as one might hope they would. Others did not. That’s just how it goes sometimes. At one time I’d have been preoccupied with what wasn’t working or didn’t work. That’s where my focus would have been, and it would have brought me down. I would have wallowed for months. This is typical of most people. Perhaps, you.
What you and I can do is learn what you can from what you did or did not do. Learn from what works out and what doesn’t. It is true most people learn more and transform more through adversity or hardship than when comfortable. That’s not to say you can’t transform when you’re comfortable, but most people don’t because everything is OK. They don’t feel the need to make it different.
When everything is falling apart or you face things about yourself or feel less-than-glorious it is the opportune time to decide never again and begin to think, feel and act differently. So, when times are tough, when you feel insecure, worried, doubtful, scared, ashamed or sad, know THIS feeling is a signal that you can be different if you choose. Let go of the issues, empty your cup and it’s possible.
Change Your Thoughts And Transform Your Life
Do nothing and nothing changes. Sitting with a full cup of reason, excuses, whining, complaining and blaming keeps everything the same. Instead, use this moment to release and shift. STOP perpetuating the old feelings and the problems and begin to be new. Transform yourself by the renewing of your mind. Remember, new wine requires new wine skins. The old ones won’t suffice.
Recognize the signal. Get as much feedback as possible. Discover what it is to learn from the trying circumstances, negative thoughts, feelings and behaviors. Apply the learning because otherwise you haven’t learned anything unless you use it and move forward. Stop thinking about the fish you didn’t catch and focus on the ones you did. Understand this! It Is how to improve the future.
Improve this moment. Stop focusing on the problem and perpetuating the things you’ve been doing and start doing something new. Let go of the old to make room for the new. Be willing to allow and receive the new in. If it is crowded with the old, if the teacup is full, nothing can be put in. Life is so much better and freer when you let go. Forget about what doesn’t work. Let go. Learn from it.
Create The Life You Want And Deserve
Extract the lessons. Maintain focus on celebrating! Celebrate yourself. Discover your problems are NOT locked in stone. They may seem like it but they can be transformed. Learn this and all of life changes for you. Focus on what you want and intend to create. Sometimes you’ll strike out. If you play baseball, you strike out more than you hit and more times than you get on base or a home run.
That is just how the game works. If you want to play the game, accept it, and don’t let it get you down. Keep your head up and your chin held high. Think the best. Feel the best. Be grateful for who you are and everything in your life that’s brought you to this moment. Move forward with positive anticipation for making your dreams come true. Never quit. Adjust and keep moving forward.
This is how you get what we want. It has nothing to do with pie-in-the-sky wishful thinking. It IS about developing an unstoppable ‘I can do whatever I set out to do attitude.’ Defeats and doubts along the way don’t have to stop you. They teach you and can make you stronger and better. So, keep going and make your dreams come true. Drop self-doubt, impostor syndrome and anxiety!
Do Nothing And Nothing Changes
Stop perpetuating an old way. Promote the new way. Free yourself! Remember, be grateful for all and you’ll discover so much more than if you’re a victim of your mindset and problems. Develop a powerful, positive attitude and you’ll develop the confidence in yourself to perform free of anxiety. Be glad for who you are and all you’ve been through. Stop focusing on dog shit and realize you can focus on the diamonds. Empty the cup of old thoughts so you can receive the new. Get it? Celebrate EVERYTHING!” Rex Sikes
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“Rex’s background as change agent, actor, magician, mentalist, communicator, performer, and survivor, makes him well practiced in the art of knowing the inner landscape of the human mind. In this book, he hands you the keys to unlock the magical kingdom within you. Not only do you receive the keys, codes, and passwords, you also get the full behind-the-scenes tour to know how to use them. You can now take charge of your own thinking and enjoy the abundant riches you are uniquely qualified to produce as you live life on your own terms.” – Paul R. Scheele, Ph.D
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