“If you were asked to describe yourself what would you say? What words would you choose? Who are you? Who do you think you are? How do you describe yourself? What words do you use? It matters!! It’s important how you define yourself. Your self-image determines how your experience, life and whether you reach for your goals. All labels are judgements. Descriptions. Descriptors.

Do you say you are shy, introverted, fat, a loser, a business person, fun, outgoing or fit? What words do you use to describe yourself? It matters because you will live up to your description, your judgements, your self-appraisal because you already have. You wouldn’t choose what you think and say about yourself if you didn’t already believe it to be the case. It could be, yes, but it might not be.

Maxwell Malts, in Psychocybernetics, said, ‘Our self-image, strongly held, determines what we become.’ ‘Self-image sets the boundaries of individual accomplishment.’ He pointed out that, ‘Low self-esteem is like driving through life with your hand-break on.’ Researchers state that how much a person values oneself can be assessed by the first five words one selects to answer this question.

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If your word choices are negative adjectives THEN you ought to consider changing how you think about yourself! Stop thinking of yourself in less-than-glorious terms. Find those things about you that you appreciate. Look for them. Redefine yourself in more positive terms. Reframe who you are. You’ll benefit most by focusing on those things that mean you are special, unique and wonderful.

Maltz stated, ‘The ‘self-image’ is the key to human personality and human behavior. Change the self-image and you change the personality and the behavior.’ Take time each day to find those things about yourself you’re grateful for. Look at the areas you can be proud of. Reflect on them. Take time to make sure you view yourself in the best possible ways. Discover good things you haven’t before.

Perhaps, business isn’t going well but you’re a marvelous homemaker. Maybe you are a great Dad or Mom. You might be poor at certain sports but great at math. Learn to accept, like and love yourself, especially in those moments when you might not feel like it. Change your self-definition. It will free you up to become those really good things you are that you haven’t emphasized before.

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There are many more positive aspects to you than you may have ever realized. Get it! It takes awareness to notice things that are hidden. You must go and look. Look within. Be kind, gentle and open with yourself. Stop self-loathing if that’s what you do. Start appreciating yourself for being you. You’re a beautiful, wonderful, unique, a one-of-a-kind expression even if you’ve never thought so.

Stop limiting yourself with old judgements. They’re only mental habits. Change your thinking and change those habits. Take the time to discover good things about you and emphasize them. Focus on them. Do this daily. As you do you’ll find it makes an incredible and positive difference. Energy flows where your attention goes. You get what you say it is! Therefore, say it with positivity and kindness. Loving and appreciating yourself doesn’t mean you’re narcissistic. It means you care about yourself. Change your evaluations. Change your thoughts and you transform your life. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

 

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“If you can change your mind, you can change your life.” William James

“I’ll be blunt: I’m very disappointed that these secrets are available. I think buying this material should be treated like buying hand guns: You should have to fill out forms and get checked out first to see if you’ll use this wisdom for good or evil. I’ve NEVER seen such powerful techniques or insights. The average psychologist, cold reader, magician, or mentalist doesn’t know these “beyond secret” methods. You could start a cult with this! Far too powerful to be released publicly. Please take your Ultimate NLP Home Study Program package off the market—especially now that I own it.” –Joe Vitale –  Author, 2000

“I am smiling and my heart is beating a little bit faster now, Rex. We go all the way back to the last century and me finding my way in many ways at that point. You helped me during that point because I learned NLP, and some of the communication material came from you. I was sitting at your feet and learning how to apply it in my life and career.

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You sent me cassettes Rex way back in the 1990s, and these were cassettes on communication and NLP. And we had exchanged some things and we had talked and you were very kind to me and very generous with me. I religiously listened to everything I am always studying, always growing, always working on myself and maybe even more intensely back then. Thank you Rex!Joe Vitale -Author, appeared in ‘The Secret’, 2022