“Have you been conditioned for failure? Sadly, the answer is yes. You were not born to fail but you learned it from well meaning people who were around you as you grew up. You learned and were programmed to fail, but there is something that can be done about it.
Consider this. A toddler, when learning to walk, falls many times. It does not stop trying. Nothing prevents it. It keeps going until it masters walking. The young child did this with rolling over, crawling, sitting up. It did this many times with many learnings.
Only later through communication with others does a child learn what success or failure is. It becomes an event. The child learns right, wrong, and good and bad. It learns judgement and evaluations from others. The child learns about winning and losing. It absorbs all.
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During this time period in the young person’s development, if something doesn’t work out it is judged and labeled as wrong. It is a failure and bad. Judgements are imposed on the child’s efforts made from the other’s outside. It learns to adopt and internalize these.
The child learns to begin to make these assessments and label attempts that aren’t fruitful. Before long the child tries once, twice, or three times and quits. Worse, before long the child may label him or herself based on these trials. The child may think itself a failure.
Neurons that fire together, wire together. The more you judge the easier it judgements become. The more you quit the easier it becomes because you develop the neural pathways for quitting. The more you succeed the more you develop winning neural pathways.
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Neural pathways become habits for winning or losing. For feeling good or bad about yourself, others and the world. Your brain doesn’t care which you choose. Your brain will do whatever it was conditioned to do. It will continue to run the habits you learned.
If you prefer to be a winner, when all your life you felt otherwise, you now need to consciously train your brain, and you will be a winner. Otherwise, what’s your option? You must condition the mind similarly to how you condition the body through exercise. Get this.
You were born a winner. Don’t stop being one because you have learned to feel bad and to quit. Learn again to win. Learn how to persist until you do succeed. Stop thinking of yourself as anything other than a winner. You can develop this mindset attitude habit.
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Your mindset, you attitude, how you feel about yourself determines how much you ‘go for it’. Persistence separates the winners from the losers. If the goal is to cross the finish line, the only one who is a failure is the one who quits and never crosses. Just keep moving
The infant encounters temporary defeat but keeps on doing until it succeeds. It doesn’t give up. You can too. All ‘failure’ IS only temporary unless you quit. Then, it’s permanent. Then you have given up. Never give up on your positive goals and dreams.
Adjust your plans, attempt another way or route, but keep on going until you get there. You can do it. Become the champion you were born to be. Be the victor you are and you’ll triumph over any circumstances. Discover you can rise above and feel so much better.
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But it won’t happen but in extremely rare cases if you don’t take charge and condition your mindset to be a winner and a champion. I show you how to do this. I’ve even done some of the heavy lifting for you. Change your thoughts and transform your life. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
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“Rex’s understanding of how the mind works and mindset is second to none. He wrote a book called Life On Your Terms. It’s a newer book. He jumps around a lot in the book with mindset topics; creating the life you want and developing a champion mindset. He’s really good. You can’t read this book and not think better, not think more productively, not think more efficiently, and not think with a lot more directed happiness in your life because he shows you how to do it in the book. I’m really glad he put out this book. I encourage you to buy it. It’s really good!’ Joe Soto International Marketing Specialist
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